The Thrill In Making Your Spouse Your Best Friend

A friend is someone you enjoy doing things with. Your best friend then becomes someone who is part of your life in almost every aspect of it. Imagine the joy it would be to have your spouse as your best friend!!!

It is very important that you grasp the fact that true friends spend quality time together. How you spend your time with each other is what makes the marriage exciting. Avoid giving your spouse ‘left over time’, by this we mean give your spouse time when you are fully alert and not when you are about to sleep or you have nothing else to do.

The Thrill In Making Your Spouse Your Best Friend

When your spouse has wronged you, confront them but do so in love and only when your emotions have cooled down. Do not allow your emotions to lead you into saying something you will regret. Remember emotions are like weather in that they change but your marriage is there to stay.

One thing that makes friendship exciting is ‘play time’. Just because you both go to serious jobs does not mean you should not play with each other at home. Everyone has a childlike nature in them that is triggered when you play together. Even Jesus told us to be childlike (Matthew 18:4). Laughter can be the best medicine at times. Laugh together as much as you can.

Friends feel for each other. They do not compete but complete each other. Joyce Meyer once said, “We do not have it all together but together we have it all.” The more you help your spouse the stronger you both become. There is power in unity. When you spouse is weak, help them become strong. A candle does not lose its light in lighting another candle.
Best friends stand up for each other always. They are available always. You become one’s best friend when you endure all seasons with them. Life comes in seasons, there are times of sorrow, disappointments, celebrations and victory. Be there especially in times of need. Nothing is more encouraging than having a spouse who gives you a shoulder to lean on when you are weeping.

Lastly always compliment your spouse especially in public and mean it. Be an encourager and not a confidence destroyer. Never forget to say: Thank you when your spouse has done something for you. Be your spouse’s best friend from today.

Authored By Apostle Adolphas Chibanda.

Senior Pastor Of Wind Of Revival International Ministries. 

You Can Contact Apostle Chibanda On +263 772 945 839.